I stole this from Snav, her blog is listed to the left.
go to Google,
Type in "(your name) needs" - remember to use the quotes.
Look at the 5 websites that say you need something. (Use different websites)
What are the 5 things you need?
1. "Ariella needs a hug..."
Well alright, I like this one.
2. "Ariella needs her mother..."
Not so much, you must have me mistaken for someone far more needy.
3."Ariella needs to meet with Bronislava..."
Uuuuuum, ok then, sure
4. Ariella needs to find the Black Wolf...
Thanks but no, I know the golden retreiver of my dreams and if that doesn't work out there is always Rey or Bucky.
5. "Ariella needs you now more than ever..."
Does this sound a little like it is going to be followed by "to pick up the phone and pledge your support now" ?